Empathy Map
Get inside one person's head before you design for them.
An Empathy Map forces you to map what a specific person says, thinks, does, and feels — and find the gaps. The contradiction between what people say and what they do is where your best insights live. Always map one person, not a persona. A composite of everyone is a map of no one.
How to run this
- Name the person — a real individual, not a persona.
- Fill Says and Does first — what you can observe or hear directly.
- Infer Thinks and Feels from what you know, not what you hope.
- Look for contradictions between Say/Do and Think/Feel.
- Translate contradictions into Gains and Pains — that gap is your insight.
Empathy Map
Dave Gray · XPLANE · updated 2017Filling in what you wish they thought or felt. This is a research tool, not a wishful-thinking exercise. Every entry should be grounded in something you've actually seen or heard.
One sharp contradiction — something they say that contradicts what they do. That gap is the insight. A map without contradictions wasn't filled in honestly.
When you have at least one validated pain that your idea could address, and you've confirmed it with a real person — not assumed it.
Try it interactively with WAiDE
WAiDE will guide you through mapping a real person — asking the questions that expose the gaps between what they say and what they actually do. You'll leave with a completed map and a session report.